Saturday, September 5, 2009

Infertility* This one is for my beautiful sister *by Crystal

My sister also has infertility issues. She is a way different situation. She married the perfect redneck. He's a little cute, kinda sweet, and very annoying. I knew the minute he farted in front of me the first time we met he was perfect for her! Well, let me start by saying that my sister is my best friend and the best thing that has ever happened to me besides my children. She is 4 years younger but was always the more responsible one. She has helped me through alot being a single parent, and anytime I am at a loss with the kids my sister and brother in law are there to tie up the lose ends. Yes him too. Well, they have been trying to conceive for 3 years with no luck. They recently went to a fertility clinic and their fears were confirmed. My brother in law is now 31 had cancer when he was a baby. He went through both chemo and radiation treatment. He is alive and well today thank you God, but because of his treatment he was left with a low sperm count. Don't get this wrong the count is low he does have some baby juice. The only way for them to have a baby is through In-vitro. Now, they make an ok living, but IVF cost are $12,000-$15,000. This happens to so many people insurance will not cover any of it so basically if they want to be parents they have to go deep into debt or be rich. I am so hurt because she is truly worthy above any person I have ever met to truly be a mother. She has a beautiful nursery set up already to go and a wardrobe for both a baby prince and princess. Through my sister and brother in laws heartache over this past summer of 2009 they had a dear friend whom was a young father at age 31 who consequently died of cancer and she poured all she had left into him and his family. This girl is still not down she hurts at times but always picks herself back up. She has the faith of an Angel and will still tell anyone she will have her baby! I have vowed to myself that I will do whatever it takes to help her. She has always done what she can to help me and GOD does not let that go with out blessings. If anyone out there can help or point me in a direction to figure a way for some or any of the fees she will need I am asking for any info. PLEASE everyone help me, help my sister.

No comments:

Post a Comment